On
Sunday Morning, October 2009, Pastor Sarah Paladin finished putting her
bright red lipstick, and her cleverly exposed cleavage seemed like she
intended to lure the romantic occasion of her life. Slowly, brush by
brush and step by step, she painted her eyelashes, and blush to her
cheeks. In the fall of 1999, she had earned the Home Coming Queen status
and now, she had just taken her first role as Pastor at the Final
Baptist Church of Trenchville City, Iowa. Outside and along the church,
her favorite pink, white and lavender petunias lined the sidewalk. In
the back, she grew a vegetable garden for the poor. Last week while
cultivating the church garden she watched two garden creatures
performing their reproductive acts. From that observation, Paladin
realized the important role that sex plays in the unique creation made
by God. She asked herself: why have men been so reluctant to put women
in leadership roles, including serving as Pastors? So she strolled from
the pastor’s office with her mini skirt and low cut blouse heading for
the pulpit.
Her sermon gathered an incredible amount of attention when she said:
Sex is extremely critical in marriage and diabetics who sucks up to the drug companies and medical profession lose sexuality and their wives are forced to live in celibacy because of selfish men who refuse to to take care of their health. How many of you men here today have limp penises and can NOT even remember the last time you had an erection? Oh no, I can see you now. Sex discussed in church and from the pulpit, how dare you? If the Bible had been written by women, a whole chapter would be dedicated to self-centered men who marry for an employee not a lover. Now this look at how marriage is about Us and not Me.
“1 Cor. 7:2. ... each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband. 3 The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4 The wife's body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband's body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife. 5 Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. 9 But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.”
Refuse foolish ideas. This passage represents nothing more than explaining that marriage is about – yes – sex. It is that simple. Then why have men been dragging their feet, refusing to allow women to be leaders, to chastises them and treat them as some prostitute if they do not live some pure life. Where have all you men been? I know those men here today stare my cleavage, thinking about sex. So if you like sex as much as women do, then why do you try to control and manipulate us? Why do you pay us less for the same jobs that you do?” And why do doctors give diabetic women drugs when insulin will preserve and restore their sexuality?
I cast this theme. Most men can not grasp the passage above I have just quoted. Each man and woman should have his or her own partner and have a very intimate sexual relationship. That means your body, you men, is not your own, but hers. She has a right to be loved and guess what” Oral sex is not a sin, and women often need that in a relationship.
“The
reason why women love oral sex is basically the same as the reason why
men love oral sex - women love to be truly loved by a man rather than
used or abused as housemaids, cooks or simple friend instead of true
partner for life. To be loved is nothing to explain - nor something to
intellectually learn or even to pretend or fake - to be truly loved
always requires to be fully accepted as a sexual being. There are but a
few ways to ultimately and beyond any doubt prove to accept a woman as a
female partner for life - one of the most powerful is true oral love -
or oral sex - leading to a fast, relaxing and healing orgasm in the
female partner,” according to the article
Why women love oral sex - why women need oral sex - the meaning of
oral sex on a woman, posted on a Google blog. “Millions of husbands USE
and ABUSE their wives as a housemaid - because it is cheaper than an
employee they often think. Such is practiced by many stingy men.!”
Remember your body is not your own, and when your wife married you she intended to have sex with you and for some to bring you babies. But when you are so stupid, you refuse insulin as a diabetic, you are just idiots. Women have a right to be loved, and intercourse and oral sex are certainly Scriptural based on the Biblical principle your body is not your own in marriage.
“The true innermost spiritual meaning of what people on earth call soul mate is the one eternal partner made and given by God…. The one and only true eternal partner is given by God and remains your eternal partner - no matter who your present partner may be. A divine marriage is made by God and of eternal nature.”
Consequently, marriage represents an Us and not a Me relationship with both partners interacting with each other as daytime friends and nighttime lovers. I now call all men who overeat, smoke cigarettes, drink booze and do not exercise to come forward to repent of their sins of neglect of God’s plan and that means providing for your spouse’s physical and material needs. So don't be an idiot, learn to love your spouse in all ways. Think about it. Would you marry a woman who inflicted abuse on herself? Of course not, so as diabetic men who have been idiots repent now.
